As a pastor and chaplain, I get asked advice on all kinds of issues. Some people really want to know and apply it to their lives while others know what they should do but are afraid to do it. They fear hurting someone’s feelings, being alone, not having enough money, or some other negative result that can be a short-term result of making the right decision.
Some things are so stinking obvious! It is clear that you don’t need to take a certain job, make a certain move, marry a certain person, etc. There are some things that God clearly says in Scripture to refrain from because this is what will happen. Yet we can sometimes think we are smarter than God or have more wisdom than people who have much more life experience.
If you’re looking for a sign, here it is! Use the sense the Lord gave you, put on your big boy/girl pants, and accept the consequences of your decision. Stop trading in God’s best for convenience! God never promised us an easy life, but He did promise that He will always be with us. If it will harm you or someone else, don’t do it or get out (whichever one applies)! Figuring out God’s plan for your life isn’t as hard as it seems. God may be using Uncle Joe to give you the answer😂.